Settle for being just as proud of your failures as you are of your accomplishments, because failures are scars that says "i'm someone who tries things" Your failures are proof that you are someone who understands the possibility of shame, embarrassment and inadequacy coming your way and you do stuff anyway

Settle for being average sometimes. Being average is not always a bad thing. Being average often just means you're human that you have some extraordinarily moments to live for. It's about the remarkable that happened so unexpectedly like a laugh on a crappy day or a heart lifting conversation.

Settle for a life where you're okay with being insecure sometimes. Accept the fact that on some days, you're going to feel on top of the world and on other days, you're going to feel unsteady and unconfident, not knowing where you belong. Be okay with this because it makes you more empathetic, more aware of the impact you can have on others, more of the fact that everybody feels like shit sometimes. Also, settle for the fact that you're just going to be tired alot, or always. You are the one who gets to decide if you're tired from doing nothing or you're tried from trying everything.

Settle for a life where you're away of your own flaws without even beating yourself up. Be conscious of the things you need to work on and the times where you could have been a better person, but never rip yourself up or walk all over yourself just to make someone else feel more comfortable

Settle for a life where you're okay not knowing a lot of things. If you knew everything, there would be no point in continuing to live, your journey and your process and your period of growth would be over. There will always be new things to learn, new places to explore, new people to love. Be grateful for this. There will always be new opportunities to explore who you are or new pieces of information with which you can feed your mind. Your own lack of knowledge is a gift that will never cease to exist

Lastly, settle for a life where you are imperfect, unsteady and always changing. There is no point where you need to be finished, complete and done, We thrive on problems, we thrive on challenges, we thrive on the dare to keep reshaping ourselves. If this is the kind of life, the kind of mindset that you can settle for, you'll never be settling at all. You'll just be confirming the fact that you are very much alive


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